Fat experiences

How would you feel if a friend of yours (who's not into feederism) told you "Hey you look good for being 300 pounds"

I still don't know how I should feel about this a week later, cant tell if I'm just overthinking it

P.S- I lied to them about being 300 pounds, I'm almost 350 . Just wanted to avoid any harsher judgement from them

I would feel positive about it. It's a nice compliment!

What does make you to overthink about that if I may ask?

The past couple of years,anytime someone talked/mentioned my weight it was always in an insulting or negative tone and I've been so accustomed to hear it over the years.I guess my mind grew a mentality to always block off comments about my weight,so when I heard someone say that about me I just didn't know how to react.

Looking back on it, it was ridiculous of me to take that as somewhat of an insult.

Sorry to hear that! I think in that case it's quite understandable to think or react like that.

people have probably started to accept you as a fat person where as before they might have tried to push you back into the gym/diet- thinking that it might motivate you to go back. Now they are accepting you as you are obviously I’m not inside their head but I would think that they are genuinely just trying to make you feel good, just like any other person. You’ll get the “have you lost weight you look good” all the time.

Ive been at least chubby pretty much most of my life but as of right now I'm at my biggest
size right now so it nothing new to me. However ive definitely been shamed more overtime as ive gotten bigger.

On a side note, I've been going to gym for the past 3 years and I absolutely dread talking about it with other people. I'll tell them yes I've been going and they usually hit me with "Then how come you haven't lost any weight" or they think I'm lying. Being a gainer while wanting to workout at the same time sucks sometimes